A strange transformation

Later on today, I'm going to be doing something that, if you had told me a year ago I'd be doing, I would have said, "Really? That's kind of surprising," but two years ago and prior, I would have said, "No way. I don't believe that at all."

No, it's not riding my bicycle - although those comments actually do match pretty well with my change in attitude towards bicycling over the past couple of years. (Not to mention the fact that it would be a good day for a ride today!)

No, instead, what I will be doing in a couple of hours is accompanying my husband to a local bar and grill to watch an NFL football game.

This may not sound remarkable, except perhaps when I mention that for more than 18 of the almost-20 years we've been together, Brian never cared for football at all. In fact, he and I would have "anti-Superbowl parties" each year, where we'd sit around, eat snacks, and not watch the Superbowl.

So why, now, do I find myself washing NFL replica jerseys each week and looking through my closet for purple or green tops to wear?

It started in August 2008. We were in Las Vegas for our anniversary vacation. Because every casino has a sports book, and all kinds of sports betting is allowed there, there are TVs everywhere tuned to sports channels. The big news at the time we were there was Brett Favre - whether he was going to retire, whether the Green Bay Packers would keep him another year, etc. It was on all the televisions at all hours of the day and night, and Brian became quite interested in the story. He was very excited when Brett Favre signed with the Jets, but I figured his interest in the subject of football would fade once we got back from vacation.

I was wrong. Not too long after we got back, after some persuasion by his friend Toly, Brian purchased the "Madden 09" football video game for the Xbox 360 (with Brett Favre- still in a Packers jersey- on the cover). He started playing it online with Toly, and he began getting into it. And playing the video football game seemed to give him a better appreciation for real-life football.

I don't think he watched a full Jets game last season when Brett Favre was playing, but when it came to be playoff season, both of us actually did watch a few of the playoff games - and even I found them to be pretty exciting. And, for the first time ever, in February of this year, we both watched an entire Superbowl game.

This summer, as you probably know, there was more Brett Favre drama, which Brian again followed very closely. In fact, early in the summer, long before Brett signed with the Vikings, he had a custom Vikings jersey made with Brett's name and number on it. He wore it in public a few times, and it caused quite a few comments and questions from people, which was pretty funny. He ended up returning that jersey because the number was peeling, but weeks later he was happily able to order an official Brett Favre Vikings jersey.

However, even though Brian is definitely a Brett Favre fan, he has not abandoned his support of the New York Jets. He has a connection to the Jets from way back - one of his favorite moves as a kid was the 1980 movie Flash Gordon, in which the lead character was a quarterback for the New York Jets.

So, in addition to owning a Favre Vikings jersey (and a Favre Jets jersey), he also has the jersey for New York Jets quarterback Mark Sanchez. And he's following both teams this year - so much so, that he's actually going elsewhere to watch the games when they aren't being shown locally. And, as I mentioned at the beginning of the post, I've been going with him.

There's a little more motivation now for Brian to more closely follow those two teams- as well as many others. Toly talked him into joining a Fantasy Football league this year, and with the help of another friend, Bob, who really studies and knows a lot about football, Brian set up a team. And as of right now, he's in second place in his league! He seems to be enjoying it pretty well, although he's the first to admit he truly doesn't understand every aspect of Fantasy Football. From what I've seen of it over his shoulder, it does seem kind of complicated, but I guess you don't really have to know every single detail about it to be able to participate - or win.

And so, after many years, our household has been transformed into a 'football household.' I'm still kind of marveling at this change, but I don't mind it. I've actually enjoyed watching the few games I've seen so far and learning more about the game. And Brian is happy to have me join him in this new pastime.

So maybe in February of 2010, we'll end up hosting our first-ever "Superbowl Party" - and cross your fingers that the Vikings will be one of the teams in the game! (I'd say 'or the Jets' too, but I'm not sure they have as good of a chance as the Vikings do. :-))